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on attachment - as a lovergirl

on attachment - as a lovergirl

someone asked me what the difference is between liking and loving someone - my brain short-circuited.

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Jan 16, 2025
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I’ve been sitting with this thought:

Is there really a difference between liking and loving?


Or is all part of the same spect liking just love, stripped down and tamed - controlled, unexpressed, unexplored?????? And many more words like these.

The more I think about it, the less convinced I am that they are separate - especially when I consider how rare it is to feel a connection in the first place.

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