Welcome to my corner of chaos and clarity

This place is where I unravel the mess and magic of entering my late 20s - quitting things without shame, chasing challenges just to see what happens, and figuring out life one fumble at a time.

I write about the things that break me open and the things that put me back together: solo travel, self-discipline experiments, friendships that shift, and the relentless pursuit of authenticity.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming, if you love a good challenge but secretly wonder what you’re running from, or if you just enjoy a well-told story about an accidental adventure - stick around.

I can’t promise wisdom, but I can promise honesty

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